As most of you know, I'm on a medical leave for awhile. Gives me time to read more books, which is a passion of mine. Recently came across the book, "Quiet" by Susan Cain. Essentially, its a look at how we are pushed to be more extroverted in order to be "successful", and the cost of that thinking. Yes, she does cover the recent financial debacle we have found ourselves in, wondering if this need to be successful is possibly at the cost of morality?
So, how does "speed dating" fit into this story?
Susan Cain looks at the issue of embarrassment. Embarrassment is a moral emotion. It shows humility, modesty, and a desire to avoid aggression and make peace.
Next time you want to find out about that new date within a few minutes, rather than a few dates, ask this question: "What was your last embarrassing moment?" Watch how the answer comes....truthful, blushing, put on, averted eyes?
Embarrassment reveals how much the individual cares about the rules that bind us to one another!!!!
Isn't that an interesting tip on getting to know people a little quicker?
